Finding out a cute girl is straight:
Finding out a cute girl is gay:
what does this mean dude
means you light some purple candles to attract bisexuals
@real-live-dragon it means op fetishises bi women
Cool interpretation, very avant-grade, but it definitely means that when you’re trans/nonbinary, dating is a crapshoot because the vast majority of people do not accept you as your identified gender, so you hope that maybe if someone is bi or pan and attracted to multiple genders, there’s a better chance they’re open to a trans partner.
The joke: a twist on expectation. Usually when you read that someone is disappointed to find it that a girl is straight, you expect the hope to be that they’re gay. Neither case is encouraging when you’re trans, because most straight people who might be attracted to you will be grossed out when they find out your trans, while gay people may be attracted to you because they see you as “confused”. Both cases are bad and result in a great deal of caution IRT dating, ex “unless this person is attracted to multiple genders or else has openly declared a willingness to date trans people, it’s too risky to even consider flirting with them”. For some reason people have taken this to mean “OP THINKS BI PEOPLE ARE INCAPABLE OF TRANSPHOBIA” which is… also not what this means. Trans people are capable of transphobia and will often only date cis people. It’s all a matter of relative probability.
Me being a survivor of people like you is not avant garde. Please kill yourself. Rapist scum.
#trans men are fuckinh disgusting
Ah, well, false alarm. Trolls will be trolls.
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